Friday, November 4, 2011
Monday, May 2, 2011
Some people are just born weird ......... and some others just make themselves weird .... like me ...!!!
Bein singles great ... but bein commited to someone who really cares about you .. is even better(this one courtesy Val Gal)!
Some are born stupid .... others involuntarily try their best to surpass them...!!
Life can be fucked up ,,, and I (we) can make it even worse....!!!
Sometimes confessing it all to a stranger aint that bad an idea ... !
Try too hard and you just might be termed an idiot...love too truly and they start laughing in your face ... !
there are those who want to lead ....
there are those who can lead..
and then
there are those who should lead...
dont love too much ..... unless you get a bit of that love in return ,,,!!!!!
Deep down inside ,,,,,,,,,, Ever Girl's Just a Girl!
People dont understand me ,,, because i dont show myself inthe ways they are used to...they become unknowingly blind...when its all there in front of them....and then they say i act weird....im an open book,,,you jsut dont know which pages to turn,,,,,!!
Darknes is not just the abscence of light..its the presence of profound
black..!!!
we all like to love...but sometimes....some of us are too scared..some are too hurt...and some are just blind!
There's one love in your life...and if that dies away....dont be scared....you might be lucky enough to get a second chance...dont fuck that up....please...!!! (i still dont know if this is true,,,) [ever since writign this for the first time ... i learnt it was true but that theres no replacign THE ONE or the FIRST ONE and i guess youll never know either till you die]
theres more to life than love....its the most importatnt thing..but not the only thing
Dogs and cats..dont get along...coz they were told theyre not supposed to!
......everything can be messed up because of presumptions..!!
Smoke..drink...do everything you wanna..as long as all the side-effects are limited to ONLY YOU...!
Love messes you up....worse than a paper of calculus...!!!
Saturday, April 16, 2011
For being there when i needed someone to care. For having faith in my abilities and letting me believe i really wasnt a washed out old fool. :D
For being the shoulder I could lean on and the friend who would reassure me that everything will be all right. That I was good and shouldn't doubt myself so much.
We shared a journey and those memories are ours.
Thank you for holding my hand when I felt so lost. Thank you for caring enough to ask. And thank you mroe than anything else for reminding me of all the wonders of my past.
When I thought i was wandering the lanes o life not knowing where to go you came into my life and showed me the treasure of memories I have. I realised once again the need to simply have fun.
I have a new life, a new belief and after all these years once again a passion in my heart. And for all of this I thank you.
The moments I spent with you will be cherished forever and your beauty will always be a memory that keeps me smiling. 'Pretty' indeed if you recall.
I'm happy that i leave this place having earned another good friend and hope that someday our paths will cross again.
love,
Ankit :)
Friday, April 15, 2011
Friday, April 1, 2011
Why Arul Vanorien?
Why The Scribe?
Why Lonver's Journal? (No i did not intend to play on the world Lover)
Why is it the Book of Raen? (and no Rain here either)
Because masks are the faces we want the world to see. Truth isnt everything.
Lies are sometimes the best paths to an objective.
Mystery add's spice to your life, no matter what the mystery is about.
Here the mystery is not my identity but rather why this feeble attempt to cover it and stick with ti after all these years. Oh well these questions are for a later day, gotta finish the fucking memorial right now!!!
Damn it but she looked gorgeous that day!!!
Saw a picture of hers while I was browsing through some olc pics and i swear my heart skipepd a beat for a second. No not because of love. Not because it hurts. I was jsut surprised to see it there. I no longer feel sad for the way things didnt work out, in a way its a relief but yes i do feel sad for loosing out on someone i really used to have a lot of fun with.
I may have lost some respect for her, I know i was at fault too and circumstances (like that little PMSing imp would scare her or even me every now and then, the national selections or freshers, the pic i saw was one of her in a car outside my hostel and later one from this years freshers) ... I pray you havea good life and like those few friends that i know ive lost forever ... she will be missed.
Ah, how time changes all things.
Your idols of yesterday can become your friends of today and acquaintances of tomorrow. All it takes is a flash of the little hands of the watch, or maybe a few billion of them, and suddenly you find yourself in a universe so different. And what adds to the endearing romance of this moment is that sometimes this momentous alteration can take place suddenly and wit ha rush and only because of one small realization. One moment can change the universe, one moment can rob you of the light and a moment can give you the gift of life.
One day the heavens revolved around the earth and the next day we learnt it wasn’t our earth but really the sun. There really was no change in the universe, just a realization. And it transformed the way we perceive reality. It makes you question, question the essence of everything you had stood fo till that moment. Realization I say is the birth of character.
Today, or maybe yesterday, but truly in a single moment my universe changed its axis, I dotn know if this change was finally towards the sun but certainly it isn’t the earth anymore. A simple realization that is so mundane that we seem to miss the value of its message. Time can change anything. And it doesn’t even need to change everything to affect everything.
I was talking to kiddo today, and on a similar strain the day before. And for the first time ever, her telling me about the ‘new guy’ in her life had no effect on me except for true elation and excitement. Like a little boy whose friend just told him about a new ice cream he’s discovered.
No fear, no panic, no remorse. No pain, no doubt. Pleasure and excitement. Pure and simple. And the realization that caused this change was simple.
She isn’t perfect.
Maybe I should rephrase. She was never perfect, god forbid she ever will be or I ever meet perfection personified. What I mean is that as the little boy who fell in love for the first time, the one to whom she would forever be ‘the one that got away’, the world could have never provided a more exhilarating example of an idol to adore.
Like the fire that guides us through life, feeding our passion, burning our emotions, she was the aim that kept me going. Earn to please her, feel to tell her, jump with joy just to see her try higher. My life was dedicated to keeping her happy, because doing that made me feel complete. I have seen in all these movies this side character who makes it his/her mission to help the ace meet the challenge the world has thrown open and I kept wondering to myself. This is so noble, to give oneself up so that another may reach the goal you could not. To achieve perfection or its closest semblance. But even then I would repeat to myself, that cannot be me. I need to reach for the goal myself. But all these years I was becoming the aide who would help her achieve happiness.
Some of my friends hate what I did to myself at the cost of helping her, some admire it and others simply accept it. Thankfully none of them ever take it out on her.
Ah let me come back to the point. Over these years the objective of keeping her happy was my personal pursuit of perfection and happiness. Keeping her happy truly made me happy. It doesn’t feel all that noble ( I accept it does a little) and it feels more selfish than I would have accepted earlier. The journey has given me more than I could have imagined a mere 5 years ago. And today I learnt. She isn’t who she was anymore. A few years ago the one thing I could not stop adoring her for was her die-hard romanticism. The pure belief that her objective in life was to love. But over the years I have observed what might be called maturity, acceptance, mutation … there is no lack of differing opinions, but the facts remain, I have seen that part of her change and maybe it is dead today. She accepts that vanity matters to her. She accepts arrogance is important for her as an aphrodisiac. That my humility and lack of looks was the first hurdle in our being a couple but in fact was the biggest catalyst to our becoming the life-long-bound-souls we have ended up becoming. She isn’t perfect anymore because there is no longer that fire in her to pursue. She needs a relationship like I craved for my first one. I’m still hungry but not craving anymore but hers has become a sort of a need. It almost made me sad for her till I realized, maybe I’m just being bitter and judgmental because she’s had three relationships while I have none.
And here cometh the second realization. Something that had already bit me in the ass and kicked me in the face when I had ended one of the darkest chapters of my life. Just like the pursuit of perfection gave my life meaning, so does the pursuit of happiness. What I was about to label as a flaw in her to drop her from my altar of perfection is actually a realization that the alter I now worship is even higher than her, she hasn’t fallen but my aim has risen. Her road to happiness was my idol. The answer always lay before me but I lacked that one element I’ve been circumambulating in this entire monologue. My aim changed.
To the altar of “Happiness is reason enough to do, to be and to will.”
Sunday, March 27, 2011
No i dont mean that youve felt her presence in a passing fancy or met him in passing at a bar or a club.
I mean when youve been owned by it once thers no going back. You are no longer your own man without him/her/it by your side.
It changes you, it moves you and it compels you. Not by itself. She shows you the light of day and you cnat help but follow the new path revealed to you ... Freedom!
Rock and Roll, Fantasy or Love .. fit whichever you want into this paradigm .. the answers remain the same.
Let There Be Rock.
Love and Let Love.
Fly to your Fantasies.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Missing someone you havent seen in a long while makes sense. But there are other reasons which drove me to think and therefore i write here, clearing my thoughts and searching for the answer as always.
So ive never had a sister. Cousins galore but the ones ive grown close to are all younger than me. I never had too many elder cousins to look upto on a regular basis except for pintu bhaiya so i guess it makes ense that after being the elder brother to all my cousins and Aksay i felt a longing ofr a sister. Somehow sisters have been too special for me in my life and I've tried to fill that void up and the life has been lucky to a great extent. Three family friends that i can count have played a phenomenal role in my life, each at their stage. Even they used to be friends but now its a 2-1 division. Sad.
But Rohini di, theres something about her. Pallavi di was there when i was in high school and early college. Shikha di both later and earlier. But Rohini di had just eclipsed out of my life for nearly a decade and half till i found her on Orkut. And ever since i met her during my internships in Delhi shes been everything i could ask for. A friend, counselor and guardian. A friend but she is nothing short of family for me. She's the cutest little thing and when she scholds something makes me cow down like a little child (or a cow). She's the advisor ive always looked for. And the fact that her parents are amongst the sweetest and most amazing people ive ever met jsut makes it feel even warmer.
I miss you di, a lot. And knowing I can feel so strongly for you makes me happy. I finally have one of the five people i was searching for. Let the other four make their way through till then ive got my didi. :) :) :)
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Ich
A friend tells me she considers me a good friend and respects me. We come closer. Earn each others respect. Learn more. I think i fall for her and let her know, she has a right but i do nothing more. She backs off a little. Understandable. Hurts a little but i know its for the best. She inspires me. I dont know what it is, heartbreak or romance, for to me they have been served i nthe same cup and i have not a drop of regret. :D
Anyway back to the road to the crossroad. So she still asks me for help, we keep in touch, have fun, laugh at stupid things. Its a simple life. Its a good life. I never asked for anything more. The inspiration helps me push through a rode-block in my life and i end up finishing my first song. To the one i owe for helping me indirectly achieve this mental milestone i dedicate it. She goes away for a month. We loose contact. Then when the bridges cross as college reopens she avoids me and as a reaction i end up doing the same. I sense a change in her. She avoids my messages ( faint memory from the past echoes, deja vu?? ) Then she blocks me from her facebook profile. i dont knwo about you guys but that doesnt make any sense to me mate!!! The weirdest part is ... it doesnt hurt me. Atleast not so far and i dont think im repressing ti either. Time does make one stronger doesnt it. Anyway, today shes back in my friend list! I can see her in other peoples posts (i did a thorough "am i blocked or is she off facebook check" dont wanna make the same mistakes like the past) ... its confusing :P :P
Nib
in three months i will belong to the world of the employed. Away from the luxuries of home, the fun of the hostel and the poverty of student life. Its like a clock is ticking inside my head. Life is going to change and in more ways than one. I dont even have a remonition about what this clock is ticking for. Just hope.
San
This last year of college has started of really well for me. From ending failed relations that were eating me up a little by little to getting a job .. Dm''' had me worried sick but i know he'll come out of the clouds unscathed .... and then pranjal came back to town and ive been having the time of my life since then .... but in less than ten days he'll leave. My college life seems to be taking another turn. While i have more friends than ever, it seems that with some people who mean the world to me .... that somethings jsut not right. Had we become so used to the pressure that we could only survive under it.... or is it the need for some space (that cant be it .. we've had way more than we need) or the uncomfortable division i nthe group because of my decisions ... i cant but help feel guilty at times ... but those decisions were needed ... while i look forward to the future .. part of my life looks back at the past and wonders .................